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Thursday, May 22, 2014

Saying yes.

Last week was a week of the usual stuff.  Trying to unpack my suitcase from our last revival meeting trip , doing a little housework, answering emails, blogging a little….all the normal stuff. And then I open an email from Noonday and IJM and my heart starts to so this strange thing.
They were sending a team of bloggers…of storytellers.. to Rwanda to be voices of hope. Advocates of justice to the people there.  And they were gonna send one extra person along with them!  They had one spot to fill for one more voice!

Well, first I dismissed it.  I thought how nice for someone to get to do that. But certainly not me.  I mean…I have nothing to offer this team.  I haven't been an active advocate for injustice across the globe, founding organizations and starting ministries. I haven't adopted any children.  I haven't been on a mission trip in a foreign county. Heck I haven't even been on an airplane before! 
 I completely, 100%  am unqualified for something such as this.

But the Lord kept pursuing my heart…tugging at it relentlessly that morning. And even though it made no sense to me whatsoever.  I heeded His nudging.  And I remembered the work He started in my heart earlier this year.

You know how every one chooses a "word" for the year?  They start posting theirs in January and you can kind of feel pressured. Like oh my goodness….I've got to have a word! lol.  I wasn't even gonna go there this year but I had that fluttering…that stirring that comes from the Lord and after several days of praying and reading from His word, I felt pretty confident I had heard from Him.
My one little word for the year was  
"Do not remember the former things, Nor consider the things of old.  Behold, I will do a new thing. Now it shall spring forth; Shall you not know it?  I will even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the desert." Isaiah 43: 18-19

I was hearing Him say to me that He was gonna do a new thing in me.  
A new thing through me.

You see, Nick and I are in a new season of our lives.  We've watched all three of our girl walk down the aisle and become a wife to the man they've prayed for and dreamt about.  It's just me and him at home now and after 25 years of raising children, it's different to say the least.

So here I am in this new season of life.  No more wedding projects to consume most of my days. No more normal demands of a household of  5….four females and one amazing man.   I am totally enjoying this new way of mothering that having grown married daughters brings.  It's a great season.  It's not nearly as sad or lonely as I thought it would be before my girls stated leaving my nest. The relationships have shifted and I'm more of a friend now to them.  It's pretty awesome.

When I started blogging several years it was for my family to be able to keep in touch.  We are all scattered because of ministry and I wanted a place to share pictures and what we were up to. But I had no idea of the community that awaited me with blogging and social media.  
I had no idea of the "new" thing He would do in my heart.

God has used the voices of so many incredible women to make me aware of injustices that I never even knew existed. I love how He burdens each of us differently and when we walk in obedience with passion to the things He's called us each to, then the needs get met.  It's a beautiful thing.  And the way He is using social media to inform His people is crazy amazing to me. I want to be one of those voices that God uses to not only encourage but inform.

Like take Noonday for example.  I stumbled across them through instagram I believe.  I love fashion  and their jewelry is incredibly beautiful.  Then I found out the background of the company and their heart for justice and to help the oppressed.  I began to discover and become convicted of how and where I  spend my money.   You see I'm kinda like a professional when it comes to shopping.  I pride myself in finding the best bargains and lowest prices.  I've been a popping tags long before it was the hip way to shop.  But Noonday opened my eyes to what it means to purchase with purpose and it has changed the way I shop.  They have changed the way I spend my money.  

God has opened my eyes to a new way of viewing the world. Through ladies simply telling their stories,  I have become informed.  And that is powerful. And now that I have been exposed I  need to do something with this information. I can't just go on as normal in my wonderful world the Lord has blessed me with…With my three beautiful daughters who has been given many privileges to  just by living in the country they were born in.  By having two parents who love them and support them and who fed them when they were hungry.  Who have had someone tell them every day of their lives they are loved.  The basic stuff we take for granted.  And now I have grandchildren and I want them to see their Honey not just loving them but loving the world around me. Paving the way for them to be voices too who will make a difference in the lives of the hurting and less fortunate around them.  I want this to be the normal for them.

So last Wednesday when I came across that email in my inbox, I surrendered to the stirring God was doing in my heart.  I laid down my fears and my pride with the whole voting thing knowing how hard it was to put myself out there….and I said yes to God.

I said yes to this new thing He is doing in my life.  I may not have an incredible story of what I am doing to fight the injustice of the world….yet.  I may not have a story of adopting orphans into our home but the burden He has given me to support and encourage those who do grows stronger and stronger each day.  He has given me such a beautiful story to tell of family and restoration and redemption. I love the chapter I am in now and am so thankful for the influence He has given me to share that hope with other families. But I'm also excited about this next chapter He is writing. One filled with a passion to use my voice in a way I've never dreamed of. 

I honestly don't feel worthy to ask for your vote when you read the stories of some of the other ladies who have also felt led to enter.  But really, none of us are worthy.  Any story we've been given has been written by the Author and the Finisher of our faith.   He knows our past and what He's redeemed us from.  He know our hearts today and the insecurities and fears and selfishness that fight to rule our hearts and He alone knows our tomorrow and the next page and the next chapter of our stories.  I rest in that.  I celebrate these women and what God is doing in all of our lives.  I'm thankful He has used social media to wake me up to the needs in the world and to connect me with ways to be a part of the change. I'm thankful He has changed the way I shop and that I can totally make a difference in someones life on the other side of the world just by how I spend my money.

I would be honored if you would vote. 
We are halfway there and it's a close race y'all.  They have arranged the submission gallery in order of the votes received so now you can click on page one and see who is the lead.  The top 7 ladies with the most votes will go on to the next phase.  Then the Story Teller Team will choose three out of the seven ladies and then the voting process will start all over again.   I've watched my spot move all morning long.  So it is close! 
You can vote once a day. I appreciate the time and effort it is taking for y'all to do it!
If this journey was to end today for me I  am already humbled and blessed beyond words of the support.
Wow!  Thank you!

I may not ever make it to Africa while in this life.
But whether there or here, I pray  I will be found faithful.
That's all He asks of us. To faithfully walk through the doors He has opened.

I want to be faithful in the big stuff like Rwanda AND the everyday stuff where we have no idea the eternal impact we are making on a life on a life.  

May we all be found faithful to be storytellers of the hope He has given us.

If you'd like to vote for me, click here or on the awesome button (thanks D!) up there on the top of my sidebar!  Oh and ignore my filthy rug and just focus on those cute feet that are ready to GO! 


  1. You give me such hope for my relationship with my daughter as she gets older. She is our only child and she is like a third arm for me. We are always together. I know that she will grow up and live her own life someday (as I want her to), and I pray that she will remain close to us always. I adore her and my life just isn't the same when she is not around(: Oh yes, I voted for you today too! If you win, I will host a Noonday show and donate part of the proceeds to your trip (if they allow me to do that). I pray that God makes you bloom where you are planted my friend(: Susan

  2. I voted for you Honey. Praying you're able to go!!!

  3. LOVE this post! LOVE your heart! LOVE that you took heed to the Holy Spirit stirring up a new thing in you. And I l LOVE that God rocks our world by planting desires in us that we didn't ever think we'd even desire!
    I hope you win.
    I think Rwanda needs the presence of a Jesus-filled "Honey" like yourself.
    And, as you said in your summary, if you're not chosen in Rwanda, then you can still be used on line in Walmart.
    And hey, there ain't nothin' wrong with that either! =)

    (((HUGS))) to you.


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