Thursday, May 16, 2013

My near perfect day

This is just a touch from my Mother's Day.
If my own mom and my oldest daughter could have been here to celebrate with me....
 it would have been perfect.
But I'm thankful for the near perfect days too.


Flowers from Lydia. 


Cute tea cups from Lauren...she had one for everybody. So sweet of her to share her vintage goodies.






    
                   My friend, Jami, gave me this sweet cross stitched cloth that I adore.



Getting to worship together...always a fave of mine.   Carolyn is my fave. And the fact that Lauren texted Lydia before she got there to call dibs on sitting next to me is my fave too.

It was a bittersweet day because it my last Mother's Day to wake up to a chick in my nest.  Next year all three of my girls will be in there own homes.  Lauren made it super special for me.....I woke up to a mountain of presents and ended the day with a pedicure.  She went out with a bang.

Group pics after church. It's tradition.



 I'm so glad I get to be the momma to this man's children. 

My girls know how I love cards.  These are some of my faves.

Nick grilled me some chicken and  my brother surprised me with ribs.
I definitely indulged.

Facetime with Loni.



My precious mother in law, Ms Dianne.  She is such a blessing to me.

Nick and his momma.

Lydia and her boy.  She totally celebrated being Henry's momma.





He's my favorite grand-dog for sure.



I'm thankful.  So very thankful.
My near perfect day was pretty wonderful.

   

a punk, a pumpkin and a peanut

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

{wiww } the things I wouldn't wear 11 pounds ago edition

So I've been on this journey of losing to gain.
As of this post I have lost a little over 11 pounds.   I'm feeling so much better since I kicked sugar out of my life...the energy...the self control...the discipline....all the things I was hoping to gain as I lost a few pounds and inches.   

And now I'm beginning to see differences in my clothes.  Nothing seriously drastic yet but all my clothes are starting to feel comfortable again.  I mean I can actually wear a few tops now without my super stretchy-hold-me in where I can't breathe-so my muffin top doesn't bulge out over the top of my jeans- support camis.  Do you know what I'm talking about?  Do ya'll wear them too?  They are a wonderful little secret  for smoothing out a few bumps but they really aren't the most comfortable things in the world.  So I am tickled to death that my jeans are fitting looser in the waist and the muffin top is shrinking and the "killer cami" is coming out the drawer less and less these days. 
 It's the little things you know.  ;)

So on this "What I Wore Wednesday" I wanted to share a few things that I couldn't wear  a month ago!

1. This sparkly shirt!
I wore it here back in December and had to totally cover it up with a sweater because it was so stinking tight on me.  Woo hoo to letting the sparkles shine!






 top- Dirt cheap
jeans- thrifted (Cato's)
earrings- Dirt Cheap (The Mark)
Watch- Charming Charlies
Flip Flops- NBD


2. Belts!
So many of my favorite belts still don't fit yet. Plus,  when my stomach was protuding out underneath it to the point I looked pregnant....well I pretty much didn't do belts.  But it is shrinking (hallelu-jer!) and it has been fun trying them out again with my clothes.  I'm still not ready to give up my trusty denim jacket though.  It provides great security.  :)



Maxi dress: Ross
Belt:  Target (via Dirt Cheap)
Sandels: Target (via Dirt Cheap)
Ring: Dirt Cheap



 3. Skinny Jeans!
I don't do skinny jeans. I prefer flare leg jeans and bell bottoms.  When skinnies first hit the scene I swore I would never wear them.  Then I bought a pair to wear with my boots in the winter because you just can't tuck all that denim in your boots when you're wearing bell bottoms.
But as much as I tried I couldn't/wouldn't wear them with flats.  

But never say never because I'm starting to like them. I don't know if it is that my calves are shrinking so I don't feel like they look like sausages incased in denim or if I'm just getting used to the look.
Either way, I'm having fun making outfits with them.



And how about this awesome necklace that a dear friend, Kate,  surprised me with?
It totally made my day.   It's a one of a kind and I'm quite smitten.
Her shop is amazing and all of her creations are special....not to mention all the profits have helped bring home her precious children who lived on the other side of the world. Adoption rocks.  She sells a lot of her goodies through instagram (@theadoptshoppe) and facebook now so you need to follow her there. 

jeans: Gap
yellow tank: Old Navy
mint sweater: Target
shoes: thrifted
watch:  group dealzs
necklace: the adopt shoppe
earrings:  Wifeysinger


It's been fun getting dressed these days....Well funner that usual.  I still can't fit in half my clothes which can be discouraging but I'm on the right track and know it's only a matter of time.

As Peaches and Herb would say, " Re-unit-ed and it feeels so goood!"
(you're welcome for now having that song stuck in your head.)


pleated poppy
                                                                                 


                                                                                         

Monday, May 13, 2013

Love for Uganda


I have a very dear friend.  Her name is Jami and we talk nearly every day.  Well....me, her and 7 other ladies via a group text. They are one of my greatest sources of encouragement, inspiration and entertainment.  I love them dearly and have been so blessed this past year to be a part of seeing and praying for God to move in all of our lives.  We've walked with each other through tragedy, illness, death, job decisions, parenting, pregnancy, .....you name it.... we've either went through it or prayed for the others going through it..  They have been such a blessing to me.

Well the news of Jami's hubby, Bill, going to Uganda was no exception.  We were all thrilled for what God was doing and began to pray for God's provision to get him there.  I can't wait to see and hear bout what God is doing in Uganda!  You can be a part of it too.  Please pray for the team that is going this summer.  You can read about all the details below in Jami's post.  And please make a donation towards the trip.....you could possibly win some amazing prizes made with love by some incredible women.

Happy Monday Y'all!  I'm turning it over to Jami...

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Uganda

today is the day! the day you get to see all the goodies up for grabs.
aaaand, i'm nervous. there i said it. i feel better already.

if you read my post from last week you know that hubby is part of a mission team going to uganda this summer.
we are thrilled to be able to participate and can not wait to see what the Lord does.
the team will be traveling with children of the nations spending time teaching and loving on children in group homes. they will also be visiting refugee camps, building a laundry facility and planting fruit trees.

the children they will be spending time with have been displaced by AIDS and war.

just the thought of it is heartbreaking to me. so many children with no parents and without a home. i long to look into their little faces. to tell them Jesus loves them. to tell them i love them.
for the time being, however,  i feel called to send my hubby off with as much support and prayer as possible.

will you pray for him and the entire team? pray that everyone they come in contact with will see and feel the love they have come to bring.

we are also in need of financial support. some wonderful friends have rallied behind me to make this fun giveaway possible. i am beyond grateful for and humbled by their support.

please give what you can. a little. a lot. every dollar is appreciated.

here are all the entry details:

*all of these items were donated by the shops and persons listed. this giveaway is open to US residents only. anyone of course, is free to give, however the gift sets will be shipped to US winners only. everyone can enter this giveaway once by leaving a comment with your name here and telling me that you shared this giveaway via twitter/facebook/instagram.
after that? $10 per comment/entry. click the "donate" button at the bottom of this post to donate through paypal. donate $20 leave 2 comments. donate $100 leave 10 comments. easy peasy right?
**please leave your email address with at least one of your donation comments so i can contact you if you win. the winners will be chosen using random.org and announced on monday, may 20th.


ok! let's get to the good good stuff.


there are 2 sets of prizes. so 2 winners! holla!

set #1

set1a aly4 set2d

set #1 includes:
- color pop necklace, feather necklace & aqua vintage inspired earrings from happy days
- gray and white polka dot infinity scarf form lovelylittlewhimsy
- 1 necklace from heathers happys, winner's choice
- 2 prints from blossom&vine, winner's choice
- 10" teal wreath with fabric flowers from small town joy
- $20 target gift card


set #2

maryuganda set2a set1c

set #2 includes:
-2 necklaces & 1 needlepoint from hope homemade, winner's choice 
- 1 print from blossom&vine, winner's choice
-1 7" twig & flower wreath from florero
-1 necklace from heathers happys, winner's choice
-1 print from katygirl designs, winner's choice
- key necklace from salvage517
-$20 target gift card

bonus set
ok, a little bonus for you. because we are so grateful for everyone's support there will also be a winner of these fabulous items!

-a custom designed blog header from danielle burkleo worth $35.
forjami

  - a custom made clutch from jenni carlisle{@ragamuffinbeauties on instagram}
jenni1

one more thing...
my dear friend carina has come up with another way you can support us.
for every arrow necklace purchased from her shop she will donate $10 to our uganda fund.
you can't really beat that.
carina3

well there you have it!

please visit all of these shops. these are some truly wonderful women.

and will you spread the word? tweet, facebook, instagram, blog about it? we would be super grateful.

thanks friends!

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Ok!  Now run over to her blog and give towards this amazing event!!

Click HERE to get there!  


     

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Losing to Gain- Week 3


 Well y'all,  let's cut to the chase..
This week the old girl is on top!
Woo Hoo!!



I'm gonna tell you why I'm extremely proud of myself for coming in first on this particular week but first let me share all the stats...



I lost 4.1 pounds this week with 2.04% weight loss

Lydia lost 3 lbs with 1.71% 

Elizabeth and Lauren didn't lose any this week
BUT....they didn't gain any either so there ya go!!  


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Ok. Now on to all the behind the scenes stuff.
Even though I lost 4 lbs I was soooo disappointed I didn't knock Lydia off the top position for over all leader. If you read last week's post, then you know I gave her a hard time for being on the bottom as she was posting pics of ice cream and chocolate. 
 She was kinda sliding back into old habits and I exercised some tough love...
nothing like being dissed for the whole intra-web to see!
She was a little mad at me but hey...it worked.  She went from losing 1 pound last week  to losing 3 pounds this week. When we were texting our weight for the weigh in on Monday, I felt pretty good I'd be on top with my 4 lbs for this weeks win but I had my sights set on the over all lead.
Here was the text she sent us.

Don't worry Ladeea.....It's gonna happen.  SOON.

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Now for all the tips and stuff.
We are only in the middle of week 3 and it feels like a lifetime ago since we started this.
My motivation has kicked in high gear and going strong having fun discovering new foods and stuff,
but I think the girls are in a slump.
  Those of you who are rooting for them need to cheer them on!

I texted them to get their input for the post.  The only one who responded was Lydia and this was it.

And I haven't heard a peep from the other two.  
So get busy with some encouragement!! ASAP!
(and I totally meant losing to gain in the above text..oops)


It has been a hectic week for all of us with lots of challenges.
  • Lauren has been studying for finals all week.
  • Elizabeth has the three little ones who keep her busy 24/7 but on top of that, a couple of them were sick, she hosted a ladies event at her church, and her "trainer" was busy studying for finals.
  • Lydia was busy taking pics of Henry....that takes up a lot of her time these days.  lol!! JUUUST kidding They had some big events too at church that she was involved in.
Here are some pics from the week.
Even after only three weeks we are all beginning to see differences in how our clothes fit!



Now I'll share with you why I'm particularly proud of myself for losing 4 lbs on this week.
You see over half of the week we were out of town, staying in a hotel while Nick preached a revival.
For those who don't know what a revival is, it's a concentrated effort where the church comes together for a series of messages that are geared toward the church...asking God expose sin in our lives and asking Him to reveal Himself and His ways to us that our relationship with Him can be revived  and renewed to be better servants and disciples.   It's an awesome thing to be a part of watching God soften hearts and build up the body of Christ.

These revival meetings typically start on  Sunday morning then go Sunday night through Wednesday night.    Now the thing that makes it a challenge for someone who is trying to lose weight or even just eat healthy is the fact besides all the awesome preaching and worship, there is always lots of food.  Lots of fattening food.   Often the church will host a church wide pot luck fellowship and those always consists of lots and lots of casseroles and rich desserts.  Every church we go to has a little lady who is famous for her homemade macaroni and cheese, chicken dressing and pound cake.  Every church I tell you.  And they all are proud of these gifts and want you to sample them.

Well this week was no exception and on top of all the yummy food at night, they also fed us at lunch time too.  The church hosted a noon day lunch for all the business folks to come to on their lunch hour. Nick shared a devotion each day while the people finished up with dessert.  
Food was everywhere.   I wish I would have taken a picture of the spread that was laid before me each day.

**on a side note. I have to give props to the men and women on the kitchen team at this church.  They were some of the most joyful servants we have  had the pleasure of fellowshipping with.  They were there twice a day and  stayed super late because we ate after the service each night yet they were always smiling.  Not once did they rush us, or complain about all the work they were doing.  No...they just served with a joyful heart.  It was so refreshing to me and I appreciated them so much!  Nick is often the last one to leave the sanctuary  after the services  as people want to talk to him, pray with him, and sometimes even counsel with him.  I can't tell you how many times when we finally make it to the fellowship hall to eat, the folks in the kitchen are often so upset that we have taken so long. Sometime's the priority gets out of whack and there is more emphasis put on the food than the spiritual aspect of revival. And if they don't let us know by flat out saying "FINALLY!  Now lets eat before this gets cold again" then we get the picture from all the huffing and sighing and rolling of eyes that we took too long. But not this church!  Their team was a blessing. They always waited for Nick before anyone began eating and they fellowshipped right along with us when we got there and then stayed to clean up after we left.  It was so humbling to be served in such a way.

With all that being said...you get the idea of how challenging it can be to stay on track and lose weight in this environment.  During revivals we often are eating late around 8 to 8:30 each night too.  But I also have been convicted that what I chose to put in my body is a form of worship too.  This body is His temple where He resides and  I have often put so much emphasis on other ways to worship Him that I neglect this major and important aspect.    This week I had to come to grips  that  I will always be finding myself in this situation when it come to food because of our calling the Lord has placed on our lives.  We have one to two  revivals scheduled all the way through October so I had to get to a place of learning how to walk through this part of my losing to gain journey and quit trying to walk around it.
This challenge is here to stay.

So what did I do?
Well for one, I didn't ditch my exercising. I actually used the gym at the hotel.

Every town has a walmart so I stocked our little hotel fridge with some healthy snacks.
I bought strawberries, Greek yogurt, almonds, and broccoli to eat.  I would eat right before we left and drink a cup a tea so that I wouldn't  be crazy hungry just in case there wasn't very many healthy choices to choose from if it was a buffet pot luck type thing.  However, some meals were planned out and you just picked up your plate that they had already served.  I was always gracious and thankful.  I would eat the best choice and then socialize a lot at my table with those I was sitting with.  No one even noticed I wasn't eating everything on my plate.    A couple of the ladies on the kitchen team did realize I was watching what I ate and they made big wonderful green salads the last two days we were there.  
It was so good!


Being that in the past I gained weight every revival we attended....I was super stoked that I LOST 4 POUNDS!!  Yay me!!  


In closing here a few things I've enjoyed trying this week...

A low carb pizza.
The crust is a Joseph's pita... you can find them in the deli section at walmart.  All of their flatbread and pitas and stuff are great choices.  They are chocked full of all kinds of good-for-you stuff. 
I sliced a tomato and then used fresh basil, garlic and feta cheese.  I roasted it in the oven until the pita was toasty.  It was super good.

I've done incredible on  giving up sugar.  I really think it's a God thing.  I didn't eat the FIRST dessert at the revival and they had some scrumptious things available.
But every now and then I fling a craving for something chocolaty.  This is a muffin in a cup that is made without using flour.  I use flax seed and cocoa and sweeten it with Truvia.  It fills me up forever and it knocks out the chocolate craving.  That is plain Greek yogurt with some fresh strawberries on the side.  

But my favorite thing I discovered was roasting my cauliflower!!
I know some of you are like..."Duh....been doing that for years.
But it's new to me!  I happen to love  cauliflower...even raw.  
I have no idea why I waited so long to try it this way.  It is SO good!



Well there ya have it.
Next week will make one month since we all started losing to gain so I'm hoping to share a few before and after photos and our total weight we've lost so far.
This past Monday made 10.1 pounds lost for me in just 3 weeks of changing my lifestyle.
YOU can do it too!!

I hope you are joining us in this journey of losing to gain!
Thank you to all of you who are so good about encouraging us and spurring us on when we see y'all around on facebook and Instagram.  Y'all are the best!!



                                                                         
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